Not all WordPress themes are created equal. Many are designed by unique individuals who put their own spin on everything. They code them differently. They make different widgets. They make their widgets more difficult than they need to be.
I upgraded my website to the “Pro” version a couple of weeks ago because the “Lite” version I originally downloaded didn’t let me rearrange my menus and it just didn’t make sense that “Home” was not first. I was frustrated with this for a while but finally gave in and paid the fifty dollars for the one-time upgrade.
With all of that being said, sorry the site is a little messy. I’m working on it. I swear.